If you are searching for a full and authentic life, we can help.

If you’ve found our site, it’s pretty clear you’re looking for some support; but sometimes, it can be hard to know exactly what kind of support you need. It can be confusing trying to understand what support you are looking for when you are experiencing an increase in mental, emotional, and physical unrest. We understand you have options in who you choose to work with and we want to help you make an informed decision. So here is a brief overview of what you can expect from our therapist and our treatment philosophy at The Relationship Elevation and Learning Institute.

Solution-focused ego driven psychotherapy is a therapeutic approach that integrates elements of solution-focused therapy and ego psychology. It places a strong emphasis on the role of the ego, which is seen as a childlike aspect of ourselves that seeks control over our thoughts, emotions, and behaviors to achieve safety, comfort, and pleasurable experiences.

This therapy recognizes that our cognitive and behavioral habits developed over our lifespan significantly influence our relationships with ourselves and others. By exploring and understanding these habits, clients can gain insight into how they contribute to their current challenges and develop more effective strategies for positive change.

The therapist in Solution-focused ego driven psychotherapy works collaboratively with clients to identify their strengths, resources, and goals. Rather than staying stuck in the problem or focusing on symptoms, the therapy primarily focuses on exploring solutions, promoting personal growth, and enhancing self-awareness. This approach allows for a natural reduction of symptoms and allows for one to grow in confidence with ones ability to positively influence the direction of their own lives and relationships.

Clients are encouraged to explore their preferred future and envision the steps they can take to achieve their goals. The therapist helps clients identify and build upon their existing coping skills and develop new strategies that align with their values and aspirations.

This approach is characterized by its practicality, optimism, and emphasis on the present and future. It emphasizes the importance of small, incremental changes that can lead to significant improvements in overall well-being and satisfaction in relationships.

Solution-focused ego driven psychotherapy is a highly individualized and client-centered approach, recognizing that each person’s experiences and needs are unique. By empowering individuals to take an active role in their own healing and growth, this therapy supports clients in creating meaningful changes in their lives and fostering healthier relationships with themselves and others.

PERSON-CENTERED

This is for you if you are looking to improve all of the key elements in your life. If your goal is to focus on a better self, better relationships, and a better career, you’re in the right place.

A person centered approach is based on the “Think Possible, Not Positive™” approach. This allows you to begin exactly where you are, not where someone else thinks you should be. Through this step-by-step approach you will find the path that is truly and authentically yours, often moving from black and white thinking toward examining the gray areas. In doing that, you will uncover the goals and ideals that will truly be fulfilling for your life.

RELATIONSHIP ELEVATION

If you’re looking for relationship elevation therapy it’s probably for one of two reasons. Either you are looking for Mr. or Mrs. right and are tired of searching only to keep hitting a dead end, or, you’re in a relationship already that just never seems to work no matter what you do and you are wondering, “how do we actually make our relationship better?”

In either case, relationship elevation therapy can be the answer.

This is couples therapy where we all meet together and work through relationship issues. However there is a large emphasis on the individuality of each person and how their values attitudes and beliefs are impacting the health of the relationship. By participating in relationship elevation therapy you become a stronger participant in co-creating a respectful, loving and passionate relationship with your partner.

MULTI-PERSON RELATIONSHIP THERAPY

Multi-person relationship therapy, also known as family therapy or multiple couples therapy, is a therapeutic approach that focuses on improving the dynamics and functioning of relationships involving more than one person. It recognizes that our relationships significantly impact our well-being and aims to address conflicts, improve communication, and strengthen connections within the relationship system.

In multi-person relationship therapy, the therapist works with all individuals involved in the relationship, whether it’s a couple, a family, or a group, i.e family systems that now include new spouses and partners. The therapy sessions provide a safe and neutral space for open dialogue, exploration of emotions, and understanding of each person’s perspective.

The therapist helps the individuals identify patterns of interaction, underlying dynamics, and areas of conflict within the relationship. It may involve exploring past experiences, family history, and individual beliefs to gain insight into how these factors influence current relationship dynamics.

The ultimate goal of multi-person relationship therapy is to foster greater harmony, satisfaction, and resilience within the relationship system. It can help individuals develop stronger connections, improve problem-solving skills, and navigate life transitions more effectively.

Whether it’s a couple seeking to strengthen their bond or a family facing challenges, multi-person relationship therapy offers a collaborative and transformative approach to promoting healthier and more fulfilling relationships.